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Our Wedding Day: Mother of the Bride Speech

Once Mr. A’s best man was finished with his speech, it was time for the last and final speech from my Mom.  I think we saved the best for last.

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I was actually a little surprised that my Mom wanted to give a speech but not really surprised that she blew me out of the water (she’s a really eloquent, well thought speaker).  When Mr. A and I were figuring out the reception scheduling, I mentioned that it would be a good idea to give both of our parents the invitation to speak (always better to offer and be denied than to assume).  My Mom answered right away that she wanted to do a toast.  She said that she knew my Father would never do it but she want to say what she knew he wanted to (does that not melt your heart?)
I’m glad we saved my Mom for last because I totally cried.  I knew my Mom would find a way to get those tears rolling.  Moms just do that.  And I knew that whatever she said it would be thoughtful and heartwarming.  I just had no idea I would be so touched by what she said.  But I guess that is how it works when your Mom is your best friend. 
Thank you, Mom, for putting so much time and effort into your speech.  Mr. A and I were so humbled by what you said.  It’s truly an honor to have you and Dad helping us through our life and our marriage.  

“It’s such a pleasure to be here with so many people who know and love Mr. and Ms. Adams.  They have both worked so hard on every detail, every aspect of their wedding ultimately to honor their family and friends.  I think they have done a truly amazing job and I think all of us can feel their love.
Ms. Adams – you are the daughter that every parent hopes for, dreams of and aspires to raise (this is pretty much when I lost it). 

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Mr. Adams – you are the son-in-law every parent prays for their daughter to meet and fall in love with for the rest of her life. You have not only won our daughter’s heart you have won ours also.

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It’s been a true joy to watch you both develop the loving, healthy and supportive relationship which you have now committed to in front of all who are important to you. 

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Steve and I would like to thank each of you for celebrating with us today and I would like to offer an Irish blessing as a toast – Because I’ll stick something Irish in anywhere (note that my brothers started hysterical laughing at this point, leave it to them to find a dirty joke in a sentimental moment.)

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May God be with you and bless you
May you see your children’s children
May you be poor in misfortune, rich in blessings
May you know nothing but happiness
From this day forward
Love you both” 

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And now I’m crying all over again.  Something about that line “may you see your children’s children” gets me every time. 
Up Next:
Our Dessert Buffet (which I made everything for…except the cake of course)

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Our Wedding Day: Best Man Speech

Now that I’ve officially got my bragging out about our wedding magazine spread, it’s time to get back to our wedding recaps.  When I last left you, my beautiful maid of honor had just given her heartwarming toast.  Next in line for speeches was Mr. A’s best man, Fernando.  

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To say that his speech was the total opposite of Theresa’s would be an understatement (I don’t mean that in a negative way at all).  It just proves the typical gender differences.  I know Theresa spent months writing, rewriting and practicing her speech.  The only thought Fernando gave to it was to put it off.  He’s not a preparer by any means.  He really likes to live life by the seat of his pants.  So honestly, I wasn’t surprised that he didn’t prepare anything.  But it didn’t matter, he did a great job just speaking from his heart.  And I especially appreciated the razing he gave Mr. A.  Always fun to watch him squirm.

“How’s it going?  All right?  I was told to make it brief; I’m going to talk as long as I possibly can because they’re not allowed to make any more rules.  I’m just kidding, I really didn’t prepare anything.  Everyone at my table knows it because I’ve said it like 26 times.
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Really, what I want to say is I’m really excited to be here today.  I’m actually honored that I was asked to be the Best Man.  I’m not surprised, but honored.
Mr. Adams and I have known each other since I first moved to South Carolina when I was a freshman in high school.  The actual first friend that I made and only one I’ve kept this entire time.  People have come and gone; Mr. Adams’s always been there.  

It’s really cool when you guys are best friends because you guys kind of share everything, he’s seen me and my wife and get together and get married.

He always asked how I knew I was ready and I said, ‘There really isn’t any explanation; you just know and it just kind of happened.’  But I’ll tell you when I knew HE was ready: during the last year or so there’s been some pretty turbulent times and I didn’t know until after it was already over and after it was taken care of.  

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What that tells me is that there’s another best friend in Mr. Adams’ life.  So I’m not jealous.  I’m actually happy for him because now I don’t have to listen to him cry so much.  

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It also tells me that they are going to be really successful because a marriage is not just about a companionship, it’s about a friendship and you have to be able to share everything, and I’m really happy they’re sharing everything with each other before anybody else. 

It also tells me they’re gonna go the long haul with each other because, man, if she can put up with the stuff that he dishes out.  You’re good!  

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I pray you guys last forever and I know everybody here supports it.  I just want to say, to Mr. Adams and Ms. Adams, forever and ever.”

Up Next:
My Mom Gives A Beautiful Speech

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