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Faithful Fridays: Watch Your Mouth

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When you think of pious people, one of their defining characteristics is the reverence with which they choose their words.  They bite their tongue when they are angry.  They mind their words.  They think seriously about their word choices because any and every word they utter is a representation of their religion and a reflection on the seriousness of their religious beliefs.

If you were to judge my love of Christ by the words I choose to use on a daily basis, I am ashamed to admit that I probably look like a pretty reckless Christian.  While I try to mind my words, every now and then (which is more often than I care to admit) I let my anger or frustration get the best of me and I find myself uttering some less than gracious words.  It’s one of those bad habits that I have found really hard to break.  It’s not something that I do because I really enjoy letting my words fly (if you know what I mean)–really it’s just a lazy habit.

So as I was reading my daily devotional yesterday, I had one of those moments where I felt that the scripture was really speaking directly to me.  Like that annoying little poke on your shoulder.

With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness.  Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing.  My brothers and sisters, this should not be. Can both fresh and salt water flow from the same spring? James 3: 9-11

I guess you can say I was feeling a little convicted.

The same mouth that utters the holy words of communion is also the exact same one that says cutting words to hurt others.  That kind of juxtaposition simply can’t be if I want to portray myself as a serious follower of Christ.

While it’s going to be a hard habit to break, it’s time that I start thinking about my word choice more seriously.  You never know whose listening and judging you and your fellow brothers and sisters by the words that you utter out of your mouth, whether consciously or unconsciously.  I’m choosing to think more consciously of my own.

Faithful Fridays: Stuck in the Middle

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In my bible study this week, I have been reading about the passion of the Christ, truly one of the darkest moments ever captured in the Word.  In our discussion about the passion, the discussion leader remarked about how difficult it must have been for the disciples to see Jesus this way.  They watched the promise, love, and hope of their generation disintegrate before their eyes.  Suddenly their dreams for a new, saved world were dashed as Jesus breathed his last breath—it is finished.

If the story stopped there, it would be nothing more than the sad story of a beautiful, selfless man, who died an inhumane, cruel death.  Luckily for us, the story doesn’t end there.  A few days later, our Savior rose from the dead, defeating the old ways of sin and bringing us into a new life.  Knowing how that story ends changes it from a story of loss to one of redemption.  While the journey to get to that redemption may have been indescribably sad, it was part of a larger plan, a bigger purpose.

Which made me think—if we cut off the story of Jesus’ death prematurely and only focus on the middle all we see is the sadness—is it possible that we are doing that in our own day-to-day life as well?  Do we take the middle of our larger story and grieve over the things that went wrong, instead of trusting that He has the right ending planned for us?  Perhaps instead of being focused on the middle, we should have faith in God that He knows our larger purpose and only He knows the path it takes to get there.

Although the middle can be unwieldy and in some cases heartbreaking, we have been promised that in the end a paradise awaits us…“He will wipe every tear from their eyes.  There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” Revelation 21:4. So no matter how awful the middle is or becomes, we have to hold on to the hope that our redemptive end, our peace is promised right around the corner.

Are you dwelling in the middle?